My friend Sarah - who swears this is how she got pregnant with her second child - explained it to me this way: you take Mucinex while you're ovulating because the medication thins out your cervical mucus and makes it easier for your partner's sperm to reach your egg. I figured it couldn't hurt (and we had some at home anyway), so I took a swig one morning when I knew I was ovulating. Two weeks later, I had a positive pregnancy test.

Apparently Sarah and I aren't the only ones who have tried this. "Love is Blind" alum, Alexa Lemieux just went viral after extolling the virtues of using Mucinex to get pregnant. In the post, Lemieux says she went through two failed rounds of IUI before giving the common cold medication a try. "During my ovulation, I took Mucinex and a few weeks later found out that I was pregnant," Lemieux says in her TikTok. She also took letrozole pills (leftover from her IUI treatment), which are commonly used for ovarian stimulation.

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But plenty of TikTokers have sworn by the power of Mucinex alone. TikTok user Areashia Bailey advises people to take a test to see when they're ovulating and then "start Mucinex and having sex 10-15 minutes after taking it."

She then suggests doing this for seven days in a row. "Wait 2 weeks after the 7th day to test for pregnancy," she writes.

Plenty of people in both Bailey and Lemieux's videos shared in the comments that the Mucinex hack helped them conceive. "My Mucinex baby will be here next week dY=deg," one wrote in underneath Bailey's video. "My Mucinex baby will be here next month d$?degd>>" another said, under Lemieux's. Someone else chimed in with this: "My mucinex baby is almost 2 after 8 years of trying + 3 IUIs d$?"

It seems completely random, but plenty of people swear by this fertility trick. (To be fair: I'm not sure what to think about my own experience - it's 100 percent possible it was just a total coincidence.) So is this legitimate? Can taking Mucinex when you ovulate increase your odds of getting pregnant? Doctors break it down.

What Is Mucinex?

Mucinex is a medication that's designed to help with a cough and congestion. While there are different types of Mucinex, the company's website says its products typically contain one or both of the following ingredients.

• Guaifenesin: this is an expectorant that loosens and thins excess mucus
• Dextromethorphan HBr: this ingredient helps to suppress your coughing reflex

The ingredient in question for fertility is guaifenesin, according to Jamie Alan, PhD, associate professor of pharmacology and toxicology at Michigan State University. The exact way it works on the body is "unclear," she says, adding that "it does appear to thin mucus."

Can Mucinex Help You Get Pregnant?

Let's start at the beginning: Mucinex is designed to treat cold and flu symptoms, and there's nothing in the packaging or directions that says you should take this to help you get pregnant.

"Reckitt is aware of discussions surrounding Mucinex and fertility. As a global leader in health and hygiene, we wish to clarify that Mucinex should only be used as intended and in line with usage instructions," Andrea Riepe, global head of issue and crisis management for Reckitt, Mucinex's parent company, tells POPSUGAR.

Experts say that Mucinex could help thin your cervical mucus, but there's just zero data to support it. "There are anecdotal reports that it can help you get pregnant, but the science isn't there to back it up," women's health expert Jennifer Wider, MD, says.

Mary Jane Minkin, MD, a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology and reproductive sciences at Yale School of Medicine, says that this is "not new," noting that some people have been trying medications with guaifenesin (which includes Robitussin) to help them get pregnant "for at least 20 years."

But Alex Robles, MD, a reproductive endocrinologist with Columbia University Fertility Center, says he's actually used this trick with patients experiencing infertility - just in a slightly different way. "In the reproductive world, we occasionally use Mucinex to help clear out any mucus that might be present inside the uterine lining before an embryo transfer," he says.

During an embryo transfer cycle, patients are given an ultrasound several times to ensure that the uterine lining is growing well and appears normal, Dr. Robles explains. In rare situations, some patients develop fluid or mucus in the lining. "Often, it resolves on its own with time," he says. "If it doesn't, we occasionally try Mucinex to help clear it up."

But, Dr. Robles adds, "evidence to support this approach is lacking." He also includes this important disclaimer: "It is very possible that the women who got pregnant while taking Mucinex would have gotten pregnant even if they hadn't taken the medication." Dr. Wider agrees. It's "definitely possible" that people who took Mucinex and got pregnant experienced a coincidence, she says. "If it does increase the odds of getting pregnant, the thin cervical mucus is only one step of many that result in a pregnancy," Dr. Wider adds.

Are There Risks to Taking Mucinex When You're Not Sick?

Riepe emphasizes that the most common active ingredient in Mucinex products (guaifenesin) is "indicated to help loosen phlegm (mucus) and thin bronchial secretions to rid the bronchial passageways of bothersome mucus and make coughs more productive. Taking Mucinex for infertility constitutes off-label use."

She also cautions that people should be sure take all of Mucinex's ingredients into account before engaging in off-label use. Mucinex-D, for example, contains pseudoephedrine, a nasal decongestant which should only be used for approved indications. When in doubt about the ingredients in your specific Mucinex, talk to a healthcare provider first, Riepe says.

In general, however, doctors say you're probably fine to take Mucinex when you're not sick. "There aren't many side effects," Dr. Alan points out. You'll just need to stick with the recommended dosing. "If you take too much Mucinex, you might develop side effects such as an upset stomach," Dr. Robles says, adding that "some people may also experience drowsiness, headache, or dizziness." If you experience any concerning side effects, contact your health provider.

Are There Risks to Taking Mucinex When You're Already Pregnant?

Taking Mucinex when you're already pregnant isn't advised during all trimesters. In fact, it's advised by some experts to avoid taking guaifenesin (and other ingredients in Mucinex) during pregnancy, particularly in the first trimester. So it may be beneficial to have a conversation with your provider about trying out the Mucinex hack if you are trying to get pregnant or think you might be pregnant.

What Are More Natural Ways to Help Improve Fertility?

If you want to try out the Mucinex hack, doctors say you're probably fine to do so. But if you'd rather go a more natural route, Robles recommends doing the following:

• Maintain a healthy body weight
• Exercise regularly (but not excessively)
• Eat a nutritious diet
• Reduce stress as much as possible

Using an ovulation tracker and trying to time when you have sex to when you're ovulating can also help, Dr. Wider says.

If you've been trying to conceive and you're not getting the results you'd hoped for, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) recommends checking in with your doctor for an evaluation after a year if you're under 35 and after six months if you're 35 to 39. If you're 40 and up, ACOG suggests consulting with your doctor sooner rather than later.

- Additional reporting by Alexis Jones

Korin Miller is a writer specializing in general wellness, health, and lifestyle trends. Her work has appeared in Women's Health, Self, Health, Forbes, and more. When she's not writing, you can find her chasing around her four young kids and drinking too much coffee.

Alexis Jones is the senior health editor at POPSUGAR. Her areas of expertise include women's health, mental health, racial and ethnic disparities in healthcare, diversity in wellness, and chronic conditions. Her other bylines can be found at Women's Health, Prevention, Marie Claire, and more. Alexis is currently the president of ASME Next, an organization for early-career print and digital journalists.

A little helpful background: there are three main "stages" of birth. The first stage includes early and active labor, running from the time contractions begin to when the cervix becomes fully dilated. Active pushing begins in the second stage of labor through the birth. Then there's the last stage, when the placenta or "afterbirth" is delivered, per Mayo Clinic.

The second stage of labor is often the most active time for the birthing parent - and the time when you need to worry about pushing. Here, two birthing experts go into detail about what to expect, how to push during labor, different breathing techniques for labor that can help, and what to know about how to push during labor without tearing.

How to Push During Labor: When to Push

Pushing should happen after the first stage of labor is fully complete and you've entered the second stage of labor - which means the cervix (the lower end of the uterus that connects to the vagina) should be dilated 10 centimeters, says labor nurse Liesel Teen, BSN, RN and founder of Mommy Labor Nurse. That's a number you've probably heard before. Turns out, there's a very good reason it's so widely cited.

"If you push before your cervix is completely dilated, there's a chance that the pressure of baby's head could actually cause your cervix to swell, which can make it much more difficult to get baby out. If cervical swelling is significant enough it might also impact your ability to have a vaginal birth," Teen says.

What fewer people know, however, is that being fully dilated doesn't necessarily mean it's immediately time to start pushing. "Laboring down" is sometimes necessary.

How to Push During Labor: What Is Laboring Down?

Laboring down means waiting until the baby is lower down in the pelvis or birth canal before pushing. That might take place an hour or more after the cervix is fully dilated.

The best way to know when the baby is down far enough (and therefore when it's time to push) is the amount of pressure you feel, Teen says. Yes, pressure during pushing is not just expected, but a good thing! "Women without epidurals will likely feel a lot of pressure in their vagina and rectum as baby's head gets really low in their pelvis. Some women with epidurals still feel pressure, while others don't feel much," she notes.

The idea behind laboring down is to preserve the parent's energy and shorten the time and energy spent on pushing. "It wouldn't be wrong to start pushing before you feel pressure, but your pushing efforts will be more successful and productive if you're feeling pressure," Teen says. "More productive pushing ideally leads to a short pushing time!"

Teen notes that laboring down isn't appropriate for everyone, though. It also increases total labor time (though it can decrease active pushing time) and carries some risks, including an increased risk of postpartum hemorrhage, the Cleveland Clinic reports. So while it might be the right strategy in some deliveries, it's not necessarily best in all cases.

If you're interested in learning more about laboring down, consider asking your birthing team about their views on the technique before you're in labor so you can all be on the same page.

How to Push During Labor: How to Actually Push

Once your body is ready to start pushing, there are a few techniques that are used, Teen says:

• Open glottis pushing. Also referred to as "spontaneous pushing," this method allows the parent to take the lead. "Essentially, you push when you feel the urge. You will probably push for about five seconds, three to five times during each contraction," Teen says.
• Guided pushing. "During guided pushing, you'll be guided to hold your breath for six to 10 seconds, bear down like you're pooping, and push about three to four times with each contraction. You might be asked not to make any noise while you push, which helps guide all your energy towards your bottom where you're pushing," Teen says.

Teen says she especially encourages open glottis pushing for those giving birth without an epidural, but both methods are useful and depend greatly on personal preference. It's totally fine to mix and match the two as well or to just go with what your birthing team suggests in the moment.

For those with an epidural, the main difference in pushing is how the epidural restricts movements and positioning. "This does not mean that you have to push on your back with an epidural, but it does mean that you are, typically, confined to your bed," Teen says. You can, however, consider pushing from your side, hands and knees, or even semiseated.

How to Push During Labor: How Long Does It Take to Push a Baby Out?

The average push time for labor is about two hours, Teen says, though this number can vary based on the individual and how many births they've had before. Many hospitals have limits on how long pregnant people can push before a C-section is recommended; usually around three hours, says Maeva Althaus, doula, childbirth educator, and founder of Hypnodoula Maeva.

For first-time birthing parents, at least three hours should be allowed before a C-section is recommended, and at least two hours for people who've given birth before, according to The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.

How to Push During Labor: Breathing Techniques For Labor

Breathing is also a critical part of labor, Althaus says.

"It is important to take deep breaths in between pushes. The baby's heart rate usually drops when you're pushing and comes back up in between pushes, which is normal. Deep breaths in between contractions does wonders [for parent and baby]," Althaus says.

In a hospital setting where parents are using the guided pushing method, it's sometimes necessary to use an oxygen mask between contractions. For Althaus, who prefers an autonomous birthing approach, she recommends breathing however you want during pushing, as long as you are making sure to take deep breaths and are engaging the core as you breathe.

How to Push During Labor Without Tearing

Tearing during labor is a big source of anxiety for most parents (especially because it often requires stitching), but Teen says it's absolutely possible to push without tearing.

Tearing has very little to do with "proper" pushing and much more to do with external factors (some of which you can prepare for, and others not so much). "Being a first-time mom is the biggest risk factor for tearing, [and] more than four out of five first-time moms will tear during birth. Over 96 percent of these tears are more minor tears, being first- or second-degree tears," Teen says. Other risk factors for tearing include a baby that's over 8.5 pounds, prolonged pushing, a forceps delivery, and having an episiotomy (an incision made to the perineum during birth).

To prevent tearing, Teen recommends regular perineal massage in the three to four weeks leading up to birth, a warm cloth on the perineum (the area between the vaginal opening and the anus) during pushing, and avoiding a squatting position during birth.

The bottom line is, tearing can't always be avoided, and it isn't a sign that you've done something wrong during labor. The best thing you can focus on is making sure your health and safety, and the health and safety of your baby, are being cared for from start to finish.

Sara Youngblood Gregory was a contributing staff writer for POPSUGAR Wellness. She covers sex, kink, disability, pleasure, and wellness. Sara serves on the board of the lesbian literary and arts journal, Sinister Wisdom. Her work has been featured in Vice, HuffPost, Bustle, DAME, The Rumpus, Jezebel, and many others. Sara's debut nonfiction work, "The Polyamory Workbook," about navigating ethical nonmonogamy, is out now.

So is melatonin actually safe for kids? Here's what dietitians like myself really think about the supplement, including whether or not melatonin is safe for kids, the potential side effects of melatonin, and how much melatonin to give your kids, if any.

What Is Melatonin?

Before digging into whether kids should take melatonin, it's important to understand what melatonin actually is.

Melatonin is a hormone that your brain naturally produces in response to darkness, and it helps with the timing of your circadian rhythms (24-hour internal clock) and sleep.

To get a little nerdy on you, melatonin is released from the pineal gland in the brain in the absence of light, promoting sleep and inhibiting wake-promoting signals (aka this hormone is key for falling asleep and staying asleep).

For some, an extra melatonin boost in supplement form may be helpful in the sleep department, especially if their body doesn't produce enough. Even expert associations like the American Academy of Family Physicians recommend the synthetic supplemental version of the melatonin hormone for the treatment of insomnia for older adults.

But when it comes to whether melatonin is OK for kids, it is a bit more murky.

Is Melatonin Safe For Kids?

There is some evidence showing that melatonin can shorten the time to fall asleep in certain pediatric populations. But Dallas-based pediatric dietitian Kacie Barnes, MCN, RDN, tells POPSUGAR, "There is a lack of substantial research on the effects of melatonin in kids, so we can't guarantee that it is safe." She adds, "Melatonin is sold over the counter and isn't FDA regulated," meaning claims of composition on a melatonin bottle might not be true.

In fact, a recent research letter published in The Journal of the American Medical Association showed that a whopping 88 percent of the tested melatonin gummy supplements displayed differences between quantities of melatonin that were listed on the label versus what was actually in the supplement. One of the most startling details of these findings is that some of the tested melatonin gummies had more than three times the amount of melatonin listed on the label. For little bodies, getting three times the melatonin than what was planned has the potential to be problematic.

A similar concern was raised by the March CDC report where researchers noted that the actual content of certain melatonin products is not always the same as the labeled ingredients or strength, and these discrepancies can pose a risk. What's more, melatonin products do not require child-resistant packaging.

"It seems that most experts recommend proceeding with caution or avoiding melatonin for kids," Barnes says. "We can't be sure about the exact concentration of the hormone in these products, and we don't have enough data about long-term use."

If melatonin supplements are being provided to kids, they should be taken under the guidance of a healthcare professional and likely, under the supervision of an adult. Melatonin should not be used as a long-term sleep solution, either - unless your healthcare provider tells you otherwise.

Side Effects of Melatonin on Kids

As is the case with any supplement, there are some "watch outs" to look for when giving your child melatonin. Melatonin is believed to be relatively nontoxic for adults when an appropriate dose is taken. In adults, consuming higher doses may be linked to:

• Daytime sleepiness
• Drowsiness
• Headaches
• Nausea

Despite what some people believe, it doesn't appear that people can develop a tolerance to melatonin, so that concern can be put to rest. The notion that taking melatonin can negatively affect puberty onset has also been relatively debunked, although more quality data is needed to confirm this.

Unfortunately, when it comes to how melatonin may affect kids, there isn't enough data to answer this question. Anecdotally, it may help children fall asleep, especially if their sleep routine has been affected by a vacation, a school break that doesn't require them to be on a sleep schedule, or other similar causes.

But perhaps the biggest risk associated with kid-friendly melatonin gummies is the risk of a child overdoing it and taking way too many pills at once - after all, they often resemble the regular tasty gummy treats. According to the Centers For Disease Control and Prevention, from 2012 to 2021, poison control reports associated with children ingesting melatonin gummies increased over 500 percent. More than 4,000 were hospitalized in this study, and sadly, two of those children passed away. If you do choose to keep melatonin gummies in your home, be sure to keep them out of your child's reach and store them in childproof containers.

How Much Melatonin Should You Give Kids?

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, caregivers should start with the lowest melatonin dosage when giving it to a child. The association reports that many children can start with a dose of a half or one milligram around 30 to 90 minutes before bedtime. A dose that exceeds three milligrams of melatonin is typically not indicated.

When choosing your melatonin supplement, ensuring that it is third-party-certified will verify that your choice is labeled appropriately.

Other Ways to Help Kids Sleep Besides Melatonin

"While there's no magic answer (or magic food or magic gummy) to guarantee your kids will drift off to sleep easily and peacefully, there are things we can do to set them up for success," Barnes explains. Some suggestions include:

• Ensure that kids have eaten a satisfying dinner within two hours of bedtime. If dinner was more than two hours before bedtime or they didn't eat much, it's OK to offer a simple bedtime snack such as a piece of peanut butter toast or a banana and a glass of milk.
• Avoid caffeine in the evening, since this stimulant could affect sleep.
• Establish a consistent bedtime routine, like reading a bedtime story, taking a warm bath, or doing some light stretching, can help kids get some sleep.
• Create a sleep-friendly environment - a quiet, dark, and cool room often aids in promoting sound sleep. Limiting the use of electronic devices at least an hour before bedtime can significantly improve sleep quality, as the blue light emitted from screens can interfere with the body's natural sleep-wake cycle.
• Ensure your kids get plenty of physical activity during the day so they can sleep better at night.

Bottom line? Melatonin supplements can be helpful in certain situations, but as always it's best to consult your doctor before starting any new medication, including supplements. If your healthcare provider told you that your child will benefit from taking melatonin, be sure to stick to the recommended brand and dosage that they suggest to keep your child as safe as possible.

Endometriosis is a painful condition that affects one in nine people with a uterus. It can be described by tissue similar to the lining of the uterus that is found growing in other areas of the body. This condition can cause debilitating pain and infertility. Living with endometriosis can make the day-to-day difficult, not to mention dating.

From my own experience, I can say that the brutal reality of living with endo is hard to work into first-date conversations. It's hard to navigate when the right time is to bring up the ins and outs of living with endometriosis. Letting someone see you at your most vulnerable can be really nervewracking. The questions and "what ifs" can quickly become overwhelming: How will they react when I cancel plans because I'm in pain? Will they leave when I tell them sex can be painful? When should I bring up children?

I learned it was best to be transparent - early on - about my reality and how endo affects my life. Of course, that may lead to potential heartbreak, but someone who isn't willing to support and accept me fully (endo and all) isn't worth the time and tears.

When I went on my first date with my now-fiancA(c), I was terrified and almost canceled. I was having a bad pain day, and none of my cute clothes would fit from bloating in my stomach. I wasn't feeling confident. Luckily, I didn't cancel and instead put on my comfiest dress. He called me beautiful, and the conversation was easy. I felt comfortable with him. Comfortable enough to tell him my story - and instead of pitying me, he told me I was brave.

In navigating my illness while being in a relationship, the biggest thing I can emphasize is communication. Before I started staying over at my fiancA(c)'s house, I made him aware of what my "bad nights" can look like and how they can affect me the next day. Those days I'm so run down I can barely leave bed. My pain makes me vomit and, at times, pass out.

The first few times I let him see that side of my life, he made me feel at ease. He would comfort me and offer ways to help me, he would heat up my heat pack for me, and he would bring me water and painkillers. Being with him on those bad days that I'm usually alone made them that little bit easier to tolerate. Not once did I feel embarrassed or guilty about our days spent in bed. That was one of the moments I knew he was the boy I wanted to marry.

A year into our relationship, I underwent a second surgery for endo. These surgeries involve removing endometriosis tissue from organs and, in my case, separating organs that have been stuck together from such intense tissue growth. Sitting in the car after my specialist appointment, I looked at him and immediately burst into tears. He could tell the news I had just received wasn't good.

My endometriosis was quite advanced, and it had attached itself to most of my pelvic organs and caused some horrific damage. That day in the car that I showed him my surgery pictures, he couldn't understand what they meant, so through tears, I told him, "Kids, I might not be able to have kids. I am so sorry."

We had already spoken about kids - how we both grew up in big families and wanted that for ourselves. At that moment, I felt like I'd let him down, that it was the last straw, the final thing that would make me "too much." Instead, he held my hand and he kissed me. He told me over and over, "We've got this, I'm not going anywhere."

From that moment, we started trying for kids, and somehow, it didn't feel rushed. Sure, there was pressure from the odds that were given to us, but we still kept trying. We downloaded the ovulation apps and took it in stride. Scheduled sex can get old quickly, but we tried our best to make it fun - an adventure, a time to experiment and try new things. That was what we've become really good at: making the best of a bad situation.

I won't sugarcoat it: it was hard dealing with infertility. We spent hundreds of dollars on specialists and medications. We were in our early 20s, and while most of our friends were still clubbing and living like 20-somethings should, we were trying special diets and staying in on weekends to save money in case we needed to do IVF. For two years, we tried. It was hard on us, but it made us stronger. At times, I felt like a failure when I'd come back with a negative pregnancy test, but just like that day in the car, he would kiss me and tell me it was going to be OK.

Since then, I've undergone seven more surgeries for my endometriosis. I completed IVF, and I am now 20 weeks pregnant with a miracle baby boy.

Years ago, I couldn't have imagined any of this would be happening. I saw myself as "too much." I thought my endo made me hard to love, because it's easy to feel that way when your body is seemingly turning against you. How can you love yourself when you despise your body and the pain it causes? But no matter your diagnosis, you are worthy of love - not just from others, but most importantly, yourself.